Not one but several guys who told me things (as if they were "nice" and "caring") like: "ohh, you would be so cute if only you did xxx or xxx to your body" or "you're not as sexy as those girls, but at least you've got a cute face!" - or "I actually prefer smaller girls. But if you lose xx pounds by the summer, I can consider to date you"...Now I would definitely dump those guys immediately. But back then, in my early 20s, I both believed them and tried to follow their "advice". And yup, it still stings.